Indiana (Patriot)

Apr 02 - 04, 2027 - Weekends for Bereaved Parents

This is a weekend for bereaved couples and singles to spend some relaxed, unhurried time with other parents who understand the experience of losing a child. As we go through the weekend, we will learn from each other, pray for one another, encourage each other, and find out that we are not alone on this journey. Our goal at these retreats is to point grieving parents to our only true source of comfort, Jesus Christ. Anyone who has lost a child is welcome to come. You are welcome if your child has been in Heaven for thirty days or for thirty years. You are welcome if your child was stillborn and never took a single earthly breath, or if your child lived to be an adult and had a family of his or her own. Come, knowing you will be surrounded by people who care, who understand, and who will pray for you. This will be a safe place, a place where we can honestly discuss our struggles, knowing we will not be judged, because every one of us has been there at one time or another. We will also share our victories, and rejoice with each other as we move along the road toward healing. What will we do over the course of the weekend? We’ll talk about our kids in Heaven and we’ll pray for each other. We’ll explore the beauty of nature around us, enjoy delicious meals together, discuss God’s presence in our grief, and form lasting bonds of friendship. Our time will be informal, but structured. Certainly, we will cry together … but we will also laugh together. There is no cost to attend one of these special events.

Come, knowing you will be surrounded by people who care, who understand, and who will pray for you. This will be a safe place, a place where we can honestly discuss our struggles, knowing we will not be judged, because every one of us has been there at one time or another. We will also share our victories, and rejoice with each other as we move along the road toward healing.

Hosted in Indiana (Patriot)

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Indiana (Patriot)

Conveniently located at the intersection of Indiana, Kentucky, and Ohio, Back Acres Lodge provides the ideal setting for bereaved parents to gather. Perched on a bluff overlooking a picturesque valley and river in Patriot, Indiana, this 16,000-square-foot lodge combines rustic charm with modern luxury, creating the perfect environment for moms and dads to come together to share the stories of their precious children, pray for, and encourage each other. The property includes a 200-acre walnut farm, walking trails, and peaceful ponds. Back Acres Lodge is located approximately one hour from the Cincinnati/Northern Kentucky International airport. This event is open to both single parents and married couples. All attendees must meet the requirements of our Attendance Eligibility Policy and comply with our Housing Policy. Please review both policies in the About Us drop-down menu before registering.

Led by

Michael and Judy Hostetler

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Michael and Judy Hostetler

Michael and Judy have been married for 32 years and have been blessed with four children: Joshua, Kayli, Caleb, and Luke. Joshua lived a short, purposeful life and died shortly after his birth in 1992. Kayli battled a rare cancer for 13 years and ran ahead to Heaven in 2015 at the age of 21. The perspective they gained from walking through these valleys has given them a passion for helping others find the hope that only Jesus can offer. When not facilitating a monthly WWW support group, serving in the local church, and leading a marriage ministry, Michael runs his own masonry company and Judy is a homemaker. They love spending time with their family and celebrating the little things.

Led by

Brad and Jill Sullivan

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Brad and Jill Sullivan

Brad and Jill’s daughter, Hannah, went to Heaven on February 26, 2009, at the age of 17. She battled glioblastoma brain cancer for one year with grace and without fear, accepting it as "her storm" ... her opportunity to bring glory to God. Brad is retired after 31 years in public education and together, they serve as the executive directors of the While We're Waiting ministry. Jill hosts the While We're Waiting - Hope After Child Loss podcast. They enjoy hiking, kayaking, and spending time with their daughter Bethany. They have a passion for pointing grieving moms and dads to the hope we have in Jesus.

Our Schedule for the Weekend (all times local)

Friday

4-5:15 PM Arrival time

5:30 pm Dinner

7:00 pm Sharing Our Stories (Part 1)

Saturday

8:00 am Breakfast

8:45 am Sharing Our Stories (Part 2)

12:00 PM Lunch

1:00 pm Sharing Our Stories (Part 3)

3:00 pm Free Time

5:30 pm Dinner

7:00 Pm Topic Time

Sunday

8:00 AM Breakfast

8:45 AM Worship and Closing Time

10:00 AM Goodbyes

Frequently Asked Questions

How much do retreats cost?

Our retreats are 100% free, though we do accept a voluntary donation at the close of the retreat. 

While We're Waiting is a 501(c)3 non-profit that operates entirely off of generous donations. 

Who can come to a retreat?
Can single parents come to a retreat?
My spouse does not want to attend. Can I still come?
It's just been a few months since my child died. Should I come to a retreat?
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My child died when he or she was an adult ... Should I come to a retreat?
My child was stillborn or died as an infant ... Should I come to a retreat?
How many people typically attend a retreat? 
Can I attend more than one retreat?
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I don't believe in God ... or I'm struggling with my faith. Can I still come?

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2027 Apr 2nd - Indiana (Patriot) - Weekends for Bereaved Parents

Spouse (if applicable) - Please review Attendance Eligibility Policy to ensure eligibility to attend

Please provide us with the name and phone number of someone we can contact in the event of an emergency at the retreat:

Release of Liability: I agree to waive, discharge claims, and release from liability the While We're Waiting ministry from any and all liability on account of, or in any way resulting from injuries, damages, or illness (including COVID-19) even if caused by negligence of While We're Waiting. I further hold harmless While We're Waiting from any claims, damages, injuries, illnesses, or losses caused by my own negligence while a guest at this retreat site. I understand and intend that this assumption of risk and release is binding upon my heirs, executors, administrators and assigns, and includes any minors and/or guests accompanying me in activities associated with While We're Waiting events.