Nov 01 - 03, 2024 - Weekends for Bereaved Parents
This is a weekend for bereaved couples and singles to spend some relaxed, unhurried time with other parents who understand the experience of losing a child. As we go through the weekend, we will learn from each other, pray for one another, encourage each other, and find out that we are not alone on this journey. Our goal at these retreats is to point grieving parents to our only true source of comfort, Jesus Christ. Anyone who has lost a child is welcome to come. You are welcome if your child has been in Heaven for thirty days or for thirty years. You are welcome if your child was stillborn and never took a single earthly breath, or if your child lived to be an adult and had a family of his or her own. Come, knowing you will be surrounded by people who care, who understand, and who will pray for you. This will be a safe place, a place where we can honestly discuss our struggles, knowing we will not be judged, because every one of us has been there at one time or another. We will also share our victories, and rejoice with each other as we move along the road toward healing. What will we do over the course of the weekend? We’ll talk about our kids in Heaven and we’ll pray for each other. We’ll explore the beauty of nature around us, enjoy delicious meals together, discuss God’s presence in our grief, and form lasting bonds of friendship. Our time will be informal, but structured. Certainly, we will cry together … but we will also laugh together. There is no cost to attend one of these special events.
Come, knowing you will be surrounded by people who care, who understand, and who will pray for you. This will be a safe place, a place where we can honestly discuss our struggles, knowing we will not be judged, because every one of us has been there at one time or another. We will also share our victories, and rejoice with each other as we move along the road toward healing.
Hosted in Tennessee (Western)
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Our west Tennessee retreats are held at The Country Place in Moscow, Tennessee (about 45 miles east of Memphis). The Country Place features two inns … The Hospitality Inn and the Harvest Inn … with a total of 20 private rooms, each one carefully decorated in Pottery Barn style. Each inn has a gathering area on the first floor for casual fellowship. Homemade meals are provided on site by Chef Millie, whose culinary skills can satisfy any appetite. Guests are free to enjoy the walking path along the lake, into the gardens, and through the fields. Other available activities include horseshoes, basketball, and canoeing. This event is open to both single parents and married couples. Please refer to our Purity Policy, found under the "About Us" tab. Lodging at The Country Place for Friday and Saturday nights and all meals from Friday night through Sunday morning are provided, and there is no cost to attend this event.
Bill and Melissa McCollum
Bill and Melissa McCollum’s 19-year-old son, Clint, went to Heaven on January 7, 2020, following a single car accident. Bill works in IT support and Melissa is a nurse. They have been married for 28 years and enjoy spending time with their daughter, Amber. Some of their greatest memories as a family are serving on mission trips to Guatemala, Uganda, and Alaska. They have gained strength on their journey through reading other bereaved parent’s stories and attending their local While We're Waiting support group. They are truly leaning on the Lord to assist others on their grief journey.
Curt and Stacy Davis
Curt and Stacy’s 16-year-old son, Caleb, went to be with his Savior on 04/07/2018 after being on life-support for 52 days due to complications from the flu. His brothers, Colin and Carter, have surpassed him in age and are serving the Lord in various opportunities, just like Caleb did. Curt has been the manager of a CNC parts distributor for 10 years and Stacy has been a paralegal in the corporate environment for over 20 years. They have felt the immense grace and comfort that only our Heavenly Father can give and are honored to be able to help others walk this journey with endurance as they wait to cross the finish line that their son was worthy of crossing much sooner than them.
Jason and Robin Hargrove
Jason and Robin Hargrove’s son Robby went to Heaven on October 26, 2015 at the age of 24 after a very brief and sudden illness. Jason is an IT manager and Robin is a first grade teacher. They have been married since 1996 and have two other adult sons, Jacob and Stephen. They enjoy nature walks, going on cruises, and are casual foodies. Jason enjoys playing the acoustic guitar and Robin enjoys reading. They both have a hunger for God’s Word and seek the abundant life daily as they wait well.
Sean and Heather Ellis
Sean and Heather Ellis are the parents of Michael, who stepped into Heaven on July 4, 2016, at the age of 14, one month short of 15. He was on a Polaris side-by-side ATV with four friends when it overturned and fell on him. Sean is employed with FedEx Express in the Air Ops Division and Heather is a stay-at-home mom. They enjoy the outdoors and spending time with their daughter Abigail and supporting her horse barrel racing.
Our Schedule for the Weekend (all times local)
Friday
4-5:15 PM Arrival time
5:30 pm Dinner
7:00 pm Sharing Our Stories (Part 1)
Saturday
8:00 am Breakfast
8:45 am Sharing Our Stories (Part 2)
12:00 PM Lunch
1:00 pm Sharing Our Stories (Part 3)
3:00 pm Free Time
5:30 pm Dinner
7:00 Pm Topic Time
Sunday
8:00 AM Breakfast
8:45 AM Worship and Closing Time
10:00 AM Goodbyes
Frequently Asked Questions
Our retreats are 100% free, though we do accept a voluntary donation at the close of the retreat.
While We're Waiting is a 501(c)3 non-profit that operates entirely off of generous donations.